Orgasmic Bliss with Vibrators - 10 ways

"Why should I bring a vibrator into the bedroom?" “Will the vibrator replace me or my partner?” At Pure Pleasure Shop we believe sex toys are a way to complement your sex life - not a way replacement for some part of it. 

10 ways a vibrator can add magic to your lovemaking:

1.  Double your orgasms, double your fun. I'm not necessarily referring to multiples here. Rather starting your session with an orgasm as part of warmup or foreplay can bring increased enjoyment to your lovemaking. If you are a vagina owner, pleasuring yourself before activities with a partner can increase your arousal and the sensitivity of your vagina walls, making penetration much more pleasurable. Vibrators can be used as part of foreplay for penis owners, too! A vibrator can be great for stimulating the testicles or tickling a cock into an erection. Cock rings that buzz and shake are great for this purpose - Plus, they can be worn during other activities. Hands-free…set and enjoy!
2.  Pleasure the sensitive and shy among us. It may be a challenge for a person to have an orgasm, period, let alone in the presence of a partner. In cases like these, a vibrator may be what tips the scales in favor of having that orgasm. A staff favorite, the Magic Wand, is commonly held to make orgasm non-negotiable! Vibrators can play as hard or as long as your gens need to "get in the game." There are specially designed toys for penises that achieve this as well. The Pulse Solo Essential is designed to stimulate erection without stroking.
3. More fruitful prostate and G-spot play: The G-spot and P-spot, as we call them, are a sort of "white whale" for many orgasmonauts. Whether you are among the estimated 18% of vagina owners who can climax from penetration alone, or you wouldn't know how to find a P-spot or G-spot if it came up and bit you; there's a toy for you! There are some great toys for G-spot and P-spot, which can more consistently "hit" the spot. Aneros makes some of the crème de la crème prostate toys. Aneros Vice 2 is their vibrating option. The toy massages the prostate, stroking it with each voluntary or involuntary muscle contraction. For G-spot, check out the many G-Spot Vibrator options. The Hot Octopuss Kurve is a customer favorite for its soft, round-shaped head and its insertable length.
4. Extend your play: Go more frequently and last longer. With the power of vibrators, you can still play with a partner, satisfying your desires in the way and timing that you need and desire.  Sometimes our bodies don't want to be stimulated at the same time, or in the same way that our partners' bodies want to play, but this does not have to be limiting! Perhaps a dual-stimulator might be a great asset to hand sex for situations like these, offering both penetration and clitoral stimulation. Some toys even thrust for you! With toys like these, you can receive pleasure from a partner even if they don't feel like receiving stimulation at that time - or vice-versa.
5. Play with desensitized "gens" or hormonal differences. Whether you are someone who struggles with blood flow (as in ED) or you have reduced sensitivity due to hormonal changes, vibrators can be a great tool to bring pleasure. The vibration of certain toys can encourage blood flow, increasing pleasure. Even if you are someone whose body cannot sustain blood flow to your penis, a vibrator can help; you don't need an erection to have pleasure! A great option for cock play that does not require any erection whatsoever is Hot Octopuss’s Pulse collection. Pulse Solo is the basic version. It stimulates the penis with vibration and an oscillating plate that sits under the frenulum. Pulse III Duo has an additional vibrating motor on the outside of the toy for partner play - Use it together as a grind-on toy and let the good times roll!   
6. Suction-like toys are also a great option to increase pleasure for body parts that need a little TLC. Womanizer is great for those who have sensitivity concerns. It is not a true vibrator but instead uses gentle puffs of air to simulate suction. Suction is a great strategy for increasing blood flow, and increased blood flow can make for greater, quicker arousal! It's also a great option for those who have thinner tissues and may not enjoy toys that buzz and shake.
7. As an accompaniment to penetration: Some great toys are designed to be worn during penetrative sex. The most iconic is the WeVibe Sync, a U-shaped toy designed as a hands-free toy to be worn vaginally or anally. It delivers powerful vibrations inside and out and is compatible with a remote control and an app! Vibrating cock rings are another way to add hassle-free pizzazz to your tab-A-slot-B fun. We love the motor on this one (also from We-Vibe, and compatible with a free app!)
8. Easily explore new methods of stimulating your body (or your partner's!): There is way more to sex than just the in-and-out; and certain activities, such as solo grinding, are challenging to execute with just bodies, pillows, and sheets. A new and exciting grinding toy is Pulse Queen - Hot Octopuss's vulva-compatible spin-off of the Pulse toys. There are also some great thrust-free internal vibes: We-Vibe Rave 2 is designed to be mostly still in the vaginal opening, with an asymmetrical shape that lends well to gentle G-spot play. Rave can be moved along the inner walls of the vagina. This is great for those who respond to pressure or fullness, which can be difficult to stimulate with hands alone.
9. Spice things up. With vibrators, your list of possible sensations is endless. Remote control toys can incorporate the suspense of putting a partner in control of your pleasure. Some toys are designed to be heated or cooled. One dual vibrator, Angel Flexible Intelligent Warming Vibrator, warms to body temperature, giving a more natural feel. Where you use the toy can also yield new ways to play and be used as a G-spot stimulator. For penis owners, the HotRod Warming Vibrating Masturbator can heighten your pleasure with vibration and heat.

Take the pressure off your partner to be the sole source of your orgasms/pleasure. This can be particularly helpful if you or your partner might get stuck in your internal monologue during intimacy, or even if you are just someone who could stand to get more comfortable with letting go in front of your partner. Take away the pressure on your partner to be the source of all your pleasure, and ironically, your partner may be more capable of giving you pleasure

 10. Vibrators can also help you identify what kinds of stimulation your body likes. Through trial and error, you might discover you hate pressure-based stimulation that reaches deep into your prostate or cervix, for example. Or you might find out that suction vibes are your one true love. Armed with knowledge from self-exploration, you become more empowered to tell them about what you like, and they are more likely to be able to give you an orgasm -- a win-win in my book!

Given all of the ways vibes can come out to play, I recommend giving it a try at least once!