Vibrators: The Ultimate Plus-One for Couples

So, you’re thinking about bringing a vibe into the bedroom but worried your partner might feel… replaced? Listen, babe: a vibrator isn't competition—it's an amplifier for the connection and trust you already share. Think of it as the cherry on top of your pleasure toolkit.

Ready to level up? Here are 3 quick tips to get started:

• Talk it out: Get on the same page before you buy. Define your own rules and create simple signals like "more" or "right there" so you don't ruin the mood.
• Lube is your BFF: Use water-based lube. Trust me, it makes everything five million times better.
• Start slow: Always begin on the lowest setting. You can always turn it up, but you can’t undo a "holy-crap-that’s-too-much" moment.

10 Ways to Play Together

1. Upgrade Your Go-To Position: Don't overthink it! Start in your usual position, then slide the vibe in. If it shifts, just adjust it. No biggie.

2. Epic Foreplay: Run the vibe along their thighs, lower back, or neck before going anywhere near the genitals. The tease is the best part!

3. Oral Sex + Vibrations: Use the toy on the clitoris while your mouth focuses elsewhere. If your jaw gets tired, let the "tool kit" do the heavy lifting for a minute.

4. Go Hands-Free: C-shaped wearable vibes are game-changers. They stay put so your hands are free to touch, hold, or pull hair.

5. Hand Over the Remote: Let your partner control the intensity and patterns while you just focus on feeling good. Switch roles next time!

6. The Secret Date Night: Wear an app-controlled vibe to dinner. Just agree on a safe word and keep the settings low in public—save the "fucking Olympics" intensity for home.

7. Long-Distance Love: Use an app-enabled toy to let your partner control your pleasure from across the world. It’s the next best thing to being there.

8. The Seductive Massage: Use the vibe on medium pressure over shoulders and glutes. When their breathing deepens, you know they’re ready for more.

9. Mutual Masturbation: Watch each other explore. It’s hot, educational, and a great way to show your partner exactly what you like.

10. Role Play Props: Incorporate the vibe into a fantasy. Whoever has the "power" in the scene gets to decide when the buzzing starts.

Remember all consensual sex is good sex. Whether you’re a pro or a total newbie, there’s no judgment here—just love.

Listen to Shameless Sex Podcast Episode #200 for more: