FAQs

What is the purpose of sex toys?

Sex toys, including dildos, vibrators, anal toys, male pleasure toys, and bondage items, are versatile tools designed to enhance pleasure, facilitate self-discovery, and enrich partnered intimacy. Exploring them is a valid and empowering form of self-care and sexual expression.

Is it normal to use pleasure products?

Absolutely! Exploring pleasure products is a beautiful way to explore your body and what feels good to you. Using sex toys and engaging in sexual satisfaction is linked to boosting mental well-being, helping to reduce stress, improve self-confidence, and contribute to a more positive outlook on intimacy and relationships. Societal taboos around sex toys for men are decreasing, with growing acceptance of masturbation for pleasure, stress relief, and overall well-being. Bondage/BDSM play exploration and kink exploration are also normalized.

Does using lube mean I'm not aroused enough?

No, absolutely not. Using personal lubricant is a fantastic way to enhance pleasure, reduce friction, and make intimate experiences more comfortable and enjoyable, whether you're solo, with a partner, or using toys. Think of it as a helpful friend for your intimate moments.

Can vibrators cause desensitization?

There's a widespread myth that vibrators can desensitize the clitoris, but this is not supported by experts. In fact, many individuals find that vibrators help them experience orgasm, sometimes for the first time. Experts note that vibrators can perform continuous, consistent actions that human fingers cannot replicate for extended periods.

Are sex toys safe?

Yes, sex toys are safe when used correctly and made from body-safe materials. It's crucial to choose toys made from non-porous, body-safe materials and avoid those containing harmful chemicals like phthalates.

Why are body-safe materials important?

The materials your toy is made from are incredibly important for your health, safety, and the lifespan of the toy. Non-porous materials have a smooth, sealed surface that doesn't have tiny holes or spaces where bacteria, dirt, or chemicals can easily get trapped. This makes them much more hygienic, especially for internal use. Investing in a safe sex toy is an investment in your body, your intimacy, and your pleasure.

What are considered body-safe materials?

Look for toys made from non-porous materials such as:

• Medical-grade Silicone: A top choice, non-porous, durable, easy to clean, and body-safe.
• Glass: Non-porous, very easy to clean, excellent for temperature play, and generally considered body-safe.
• Metal: Materials like stainless steel are non-porous, safe, durable, easy to clean, and good for temperature play.
• ABS Plastic: Another non-porous plastic often used for sex toys and considered body-safe.
• TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) or TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber): Often used for strokers and sleeves, described as soft, flexible, and body-safe in composition. Material safety is a concern if not properly cared for or if low quality.

What materials should I avoid?

Some materials are porous and/or may contain harmful chemicals, making them less ideal or even unsafe, especially for internal use. Be wary of vague material descriptions or terms like "silicone blends" without full disclosure of composition. Stick to known body-safe materials unless safety is guaranteed by the manufacturer.

Are all sex toys regulated for safety?

No, the sex toy industry is largely unregulated. Sex toys are often considered "novelty items". It is important for consumers to research and choose reputable products made from body-safe materials.

What about using lube with sex toys?

Yes, lube is great with sex toys! Be sure to match the lube type to the toy material.

• Silicone lube should not be used with silicone toys.
• Oil-based lubes should not be used with latex or rubber toys. Oil-based products are incompatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms and toys made from those materials, as they can cause them to break down.
• Water-based lubes are generally compatible with most toy materials, particularly silicone ones.

Why is a flared base important for anal toys?

For any toy intended for anal insertion, a flared base is crucial for safety. It prevents the toy from being pulled entirely into the anal canal by the anal sphincter muscles, which would require medical removal. The base should be wider than the widest part of the toy. Some toys like anal beads have a loop, cord, or handle on the end for retrieval instead. If a toy without a proper retrieval feature gets stuck, seek emergency medical help immediately.

How do I clean my dildo/vibrator/sex toy?

Always clean your toy before and after each use. Use a mild, unscented soap and warm water, or a specialized sex toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly. Avoid harsh chemicals or scented soaps, especially for internal use, as these can cause irritation. For battery-operated toys, wipe down with a soapy cloth rather than submerging, unless they are waterproof. Don't use too much soap, as residue can make it sticky or even damage the motor.

How should I store my sex toys?

Store your toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight. Moisture can damage batteries or the motor. Keep toys away from other materials, especially if they might contain chemicals that could react with your toy's material. Silicone toys should be stored separately from toys made of porous jelly-like materials. Allow the toy to cool down after use before storing it. Storing in the bag it came in is a good option.

How do I choose the right toy for me?

Finding the "right" toy is a personal journey of exploration. There's no single "best" toy for everyone. The key is to think about what you're hoping to experience. Ask yourself questions like:

• What is your experience level?
• What kind of sensations do you desire? (e.g., realistic feel, unique textures, deep pressure, buzzy, rumbly, internal, external, both)
• What size are you comfortable with? (Consider both length and girth)
• Who will be using the toy? (Solo, partnered, or both)
• How do you plan to use it? (Vaginally, anally, externally, with a harness, etc.)
• Where will you be using the toy? (Shower, bath, discreetly)
• What is your budget?
• Do you have sensitive skin or allergies?
• Are you trying to conceive?

I'm a beginner, where should I start?

For beginners, consider starting with a smaller, softer Realistic or Non-phallic dildo, or a simple Glass toy. For external stimulation, Bullet vibrators or simple Clitoral vibrators are often recommended due to their size and ease of use. If interested in anal play, start with Beginner Anal Toys, which are smaller and designed for ease, or even just finger exploration. Ensure your first anal toy has a prominent flared base. Using water-based lubricants is often a great starting point due to their versatility and easy cleanup.

How do I know what size to choose?

Size is a personal preference and can greatly affect sensation. It's often recommended to start with a smaller size than you think you might eventually enjoy and gradually explore larger ones as you become more comfortable. Consider both the total length and the insertable length, as well as the girth (circumference or diameter).

What's the difference between buzzy and rumbly vibrations?

These terms describe the frequency and feel of the vibrations. Buzzy vibrations are higher frequency and feel more surface-level or pinpointed. Rumbly vibrations are lower frequency and feel deeper, penetrating further into tissue. This is a key differentiator in user experience.

Is using lubricant necessary?

Using plenty of lubricant is essential for comfortable and safe play, especially for internal use. Anal tissue does not naturally lubricate, so ample lube is particularly crucial for anal play to prevent soreness, tears, and discomfort.

How important is relaxation?

Anal play, in particular, is more enjoyable when you are relaxed. Being tense increases the risk of tears. Start slow and pay attention to your body. Breathing deeply can help relax muscles, including the anal sphincter.

What if I experience discomfort or pain?

Some discomfort may occur initially when using anal toys as you stretch and get used to the sensation. However, pain is a signal to stop. Always listen to your body and stop if anything feels uncomfortable or causes sharp or intense pain.

How should I incorporate toys into play?

Dildos, vibrators, male toys, and anal toys can be used for solo masturbation, during foreplay, or incorporated into partnered sex to add different sensations and dimensions. Bondage accessories are also tools to enhance experiences with other people.

Dildos:

How do dildos work?

Dildos provide physical stimulation through insertion, rubbing, or pressure. They provide sensation through their shape, size, texture, material, and how they are used against the body.

What are the main types of dildos you offer?

We offer Realistic Dildos, Non-phallic Dildos, Glass & Metal Dildos, and Strap-ons. We also offer O-rings & Accessories for strap-ons and toy care.

How do Realistic Dildos work?

They are designed to mimic the look and feel of a penis. They are often used for vaginal or anal penetration, providing a familiar shape and feel.

How do Non-phallic Dildos work?

These don't resemble a penis and come in abstract or ergonomic shapes. They are used for exploring different internal and external sensations that aren't limited by a phallic form.

How do Glass & Metal Dildos work?

Made from non-porous materials, they are excellent for temperature play, hygiene, and provide a solid feel.

How do Strap-ons work?

A strap-on dildo is designed to be worn externally using a harness for partnered penetration (vaginal, anal, or oral).

Vibrators:

How do vibrators work?

Vibrators use a motor to create oscillations or pulses that produce vibrations. These vibrations stimulate sensitive erogenous zones, enhancing pleasure and potentially leading to orgasm.

What's the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?

The primary difference is the mechanism of sensation. Vibrators use a motor to create vibrations, while dildos provide sensation through their physical form, texture, weight, and temperature, without mechanical vibration. Some toys combine features, like a vibrating dildo.

What are the main types of vibrators you offer?

We offer Suction Vibrators, Clitoral Vibrators, Massage Wand Vibrators, Bullet Vibrators, G-Spot Vibrators, Rabbit Vibrators, Finger Vibrators, and Couples Vibrators. We also offer Kegel Trainers, some of which incorporate vibration.

How do Suction Vibrators work?

They use "pleasure air technology" or air pulses to mimic a sucking sensation, specifically designed for intense clitoral stimulation.

How do Clitoral Vibrators work?

This broad category includes various shapes designed for external clitoral stimulation or use on other erogenous zones.

How do Massage Wand Vibrators work?

Known for their larger size and powerful motors, they are great for strong external stimulation, often described as rumbly vibrations that penetrate deeper.

How do Bullet Vibrators work?

Small and compact, they provide pinpoint, buzzy sensations, ideal for targeted clitoral or nipple stimulation.

How do G-Spot Vibrators work?

Designed with curved shapes to stimulate the G-spot, located a couple of inches inside the vagina on the front wall.

How do Rabbit Vibrators work?

These are dual-stimulation toys featuring an insertable shaft for internal (G-spot) use and an external attachment for simultaneous clitoral stimulation.

How do Finger Vibrators work?

Small attachments worn on a finger for targeted clitoral stimulation with the control and intimacy of touch.

How do Couples Vibrators work?

Designed to be used during partnered sex, allowing both partners to experience the vibrations.

Can vibrators be used internally?

Yes, some are designed for internal use in the vagina (G-spot, rabbit shaft, Kegel trainers) or the anus (anal plugs, prostate massagers). Do not insert vibrators anally unless they are specifically designed for it and have a flared base.

Anal Toys:

What is anal play?

Exploring anal pleasure is a journey of exciting discovery and deep pleasure for people of all genders and orientations. Mindful anal play can enhance intimacy and facilitate self-discovery.

What are the main types of anal toys you offer?

We offer Anal Plugs, Prostate Massagers, Anal Beads, Anal Essentials, and Beginner Anal Toys.

How do Anal Plugs work?

They provide a feeling of fullness and are often designed to remain in place during play. They can stimulate nerve receptors and help relax anal muscles. Must have a flared base.

How do Prostate Massagers work?

Specifically shaped to target the prostate gland (sometimes called the "male G-spot") a few inches inside the rectum. They can produce intense sensations and potentially lead to powerful orgasms by applying pressure and/or vibration. Must have a flared base.

How do Anal Beads work?

A series of connected spheres for insertion and gentle removal, creating a unique sensation as each bead passes through the sphincter. Usually have a loop or handle for retrieval.

How do Anal Essentials help?

This category includes products like lubes and hygiene items designed to support comfortable, safe, and hygienic anal play. They are integral to preparation and aftercare.

How do Beginner Anal Toys work?

These are smaller, softer, and simpler toys specifically for those new to anal exploration, prioritizing ease of use and minimizing initial discomfort.

Are anal toys safe?

Yes, when made from body-safe, non-porous materials and used correctly with plenty of lubrication. Ensuring a flared base or retrieval feature is absolutely crucial for safety.

Can anal toys get stuck?

A toy can get stuck if it is inserted anally without a sufficient flared base or retrieval feature. The anal sphincter muscles can pull it inside. If a toy gets stuck, seek emergency medical help immediately.

Is it normal to experience discomfort when using anal toys?

Some discomfort may occur initially. However, pain is a signal to stop. Always listen to your body.

How do dildos designed for anal use differ from others?

Any toy intended for anal insertion, including anal dildos or plugs, must have a prominent flared base. Other dildos not intended for anal use may lack this base.

Male Pleasure Toys:

Are male sex toys only for those with penises?

While many are designed for those with penises, some like anal plugs and beads can be enjoyed by anyone regardless of gender or anatomy. Toys like vibrating cock rings can also provide pleasure to partners.

What are the main types of male pleasure toys you offer?

We offer Strokers & Sleeves, Cock Rings, Prostate Massagers, and Pumps & Extenders. We also offer Lubricants and Toy Cleaners as complementary products.

How do Strokers & Sleeves work?

Designed for stimulating the penis, often with textured interiors. They can offer a more intense experience than manual stimulation and can be used for solo or partnered play. They also provide gender-affirming pleasure for FTM/non-binary individuals.

What are masturbators/strokers made of?

Most are made of TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) or TPR (thermoplastic rubber), which are soft, flexible, and body-safe in composition. Silicone is used less often.

How do Cock Rings work?

Primarily used to restrict blood flow to enhance erections and prolong partnered sex. They can also increase sensation during solo use. Vibrating versions add clitoral stimulation for partners.

How do Prostate Massagers work?

(See Anal Toys section above - also relevant here as they target the prostate in individuals with prostates).

How do Pumps & Extenders work?

Designed to create suction, which increases blood flow and sensitivity. They can temporarily increase the size and hardness of an erection and may aid with erectile function issues. They provide gender-affirming growth for trans masc individuals.

Bondage & BDSM Toys:

What is Bondage & BDSM play?

Stepping into the world of bondage can be a journey of exciting discovery. Bondage/BDSM play can enhance intimacy and facilitate self-discovery.

What are the main types of bondage toys you offer?

Based on our categories, this includes Restraints & Blindfolds, Impact & Sensation Play toys, Temperature Play tools, and Nipple Play items.

What are Restraints & Blindfolds used for?

Types include cuffs, ties, and spreader bars. Blindfolds offer sensory deprivation benefits. Used for securing individuals safely.

What is Impact & Sensation Play?

Involves toys like floggers, paddles, and crops. Offers sensation variety and intensity levels. Requires proper technique for safety.

What is Temperature Play?

Involves tools for exploring hot and cold sensations. Requires specific safety protocols.

What is Nipple Play?

Uses nipple clamps or other items to apply pressure. Explores sensory benefits and pleasure potential through proper application techniques.

Is Bondage play safe?

Safety, communication, and consent are emphasized throughout bondage and BDSM play. Using safe words and signals is crucial. Aftercare is also an essential component.

What is personal lubricant used for?

Personal lubricant, or lube, is used to reduce friction and increase comfort and pleasure during sexual activity, including penetrative sex, anal sex, oral sex, and masturbation. It can help with natural dryness or enhance sensations.

What are the main types of lubricants you offer?

We offer Water-Based Lubricants, Silicone Lubricants, Hybrid Lubricants, and Massage & Sensation products.

What's the difference between Water-Based, Silicone, and Hybrid lubes?

• Water-based is made with water, easy to clean, and compatible with all condom and most toy types, but may dry out faster.
• Silicone is made with silicone ingredients, is very long-lasting and waterproof, compatible with latex/polyisoprene condoms, but incompatible with silicone toys.
• Hybrid combines aspects of both water and silicone bases, aiming for a balance of longevity and easy cleanup. Compatibility with silicone toys can vary.

What are Massage & Sensation products?

This category can include oils, lotions, or specialized lubes designed for massage or to provide specific sensations like warming, cooling, or tingling. Oil-based products often fall into this category. They are designed to go beyond simple lubrication to enhance intimacy through sensual touch or added sensory elements. Oil-based products are incompatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms and toys made from those materials.

What types of activities are different lubes best for?

• Vaginal Sex: Water-based or hybrid lubes are often preferred due to compatibility with condoms.
• Anal Sex: Silicone or thicker oil-based lubes are frequently recommended for their longevity and cushioning. Using more lube than you think you need is always recommended for anal sex, and it is never safe to have anal sex without lubricant.
• Masturbation: Any type can be used.
• Oral Sex: Water-based lubes are generally safe, especially flavored varieties. Some oil-based lubes may be edible.
• Water Activities (Shower, Bath): Silicone lubes are waterproof and recommended.
• Massage: Massage & Sensation products (often oils) are excellent.

Are lubricants safe?

Yes, lubricants are generally safe when used correctly and compatible with toy materials and condoms. However, it's important to pay attention to ingredients.

• The pH balance of your lubricant matters for vaginal health; ideally, it should be acidic (pH 7 or below).
• Osmolality matters for anal use; hyperosmotic lubes can dehydrate and damage rectal tissue.
• Avoid ingredients like petroleum oils, glycerin(e), propylene glycol, Nonoxynol 9, Chlorhexidine Gluconate, Polyquaternium-15, and sugars, which can cause irritation, damage tissue, or promote infection. Some users with sensitive skin prefer avoiding glycerin and parabens.

How should I store my lube?

Store your lubricant in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep the cap or lid closed tightly.