Anal Sex and the G-Spot
Hey everyone, I’m Amy Baldwin! There’s so much stigma around anal play, but there is so much pleasure to be had when you do it right. Success starts with the right tools and a shame-free mindset. To get you started on the right foot (or cheek!), I’ve curated my top essentials for every comfort level starting with the one item I never, ever play without.
Analanne asks:
Is it possible to have a different kind of orgasm during anal? I experience intense orgasms that cause my body to seize up, and then I start gushing. Liquid drips out of my vagina, but only during anal. (With clitoral stimulation simultaneously). Can you tell me a bit about what's going on? Can a woman's g-spot be stimulated thru anal? I thought this type of orgasm was only achievable with vaginal/g-spot stimulation. Thanks!
Dear Analanne-
It is very possible to experience orgasm during anal sex. Some women claim to experience their best and most intense orgasms via anal play. You could be achieving orgasm in several ways during anal penetration. If you are combining clitoral stimulation, this may be the key factor in triggering orgasm. And when in the right positions, you can also stimulate the g-spot during anal play. The wall that separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity is thin enough to provide indirect stimulation to the g-spot (located between the pubic bone and the front wall of the vaginal canal). Again, while this varies for all women, many women do experience powerful g-spot-related orgasms during anal sex.
So why might you be feeling more intense orgasms from anal sex as opposed to vaginal sex (while both may be including g-spot and clitoral stimulation)? It may be your thoughts and feelings about the actual act of anal sex that is leading to more powerful orgasms. Often, it is the hotness of participating in a socially taboo sex act that gets people off. Similarly, many people love anal sex because it may be viewed as the ultimate act of submission. Or it can be for a simpler reason; you just really, absolutely enjoy everything about anal sex.
It sounds like you are having a great time with your anal sex adventures. If you would like more information on the subject (and female orgasmic response in general) I recommend checking out Sheri Winston's book, Women's Anatomy of Arousal.
And let’s not forget the intense pleasure men can experience with anal penetration and stimulation of their “p-spot,” aka prostate. We suggest you continue your exploration of this pleasure center for the butt in your life at our Butt Stuff section.
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