How to Live Shamelessly Sexy by Amy Baldwin of the Shameless Sex Podcast
Hey y'all, and welcome to the shamelessly sexy revolution!
You know that little voice in your head that says you should be embarrassed about what you want in bed? It's time to tell that little voice to shut the hell up. This is your life, and your pleasure. It’s a hard no to shame and a big, fat yes to embracing your desires with confidence. No matter your gender, sexuality, or relationship status, you get to choose your own path to pleasure. You deserve to feel normal, whole, and like the sexual superstar that you are.
Ready to unleash your desires and experience a life-changing dose of pleasure? Let’s get into it.
Discover What You Want and Learn How to Ask for It
So many of us don’t even know what we truly want in the bedroom because we’ve been taught to be embarrassed about it. We’re here to change that. Your first step is to get real with yourself. What gets you hot? What fantasies have you been wanting to explore? And what would you like more and/or less of?
Once you’ve figured that out, it's time to ask for it. This isn't about being bossy; it's about clear communication, which is the cornerstone of amazing sex. You can't expect your partner to read your mind. So, next time, instead of hinting, try something like, "I've been thinking about trying X, what do you think?" It's a game-changer, I swear.
Become a Better Lover in Every Way
Listen up, folks. Being a better lover isn't just about the physical stuff. It's about deep intimacy, connection, and showing up for your partner in every way. It’s about being present, paying attention, and making them feel seen and desired. It requires patience, creating time for intimacy, and endless curiosity.
You know what's sexy? Someone who listens. Someone who asks questions. Someone who makes you feel safe enough to be vulnerable. That's the real fire burning that leads to mind-blowing sex.
Have Hotter and More Emotionally Connected Sex
Hot sex isn’t just about bodies; it's about hearts and minds connecting, too. When you’re honest and open with your partner—sharing your fears, your dreams, and even your poor choices —you build a bond that makes sex so much more than just a physical act. You are honoring your truth and inviting them to do the same.
This kind of connection is the cherry on top of a fantastic sex life. It's about letting go and truly enjoying the moment with another human.
Fully Enjoy Sex After Trauma or Medical Changes
Let's be real, life happens. For many of us, trauma or medical changes can make sex feel like a "hard no" for a while. If you’re navigating this, I want you to know you are not alone, and you can absolutely find pleasure again. You can change your mind at any time, even in the middle of sex, so listen to your body and trust yourself.
Remember, your body is still a site for pleasure. Explore what feels good to you now—what makes your skin tingle, what makes you feel alive. Your journey is unique to you, and you get to make your own rules.
Are you ready to open yourself up and transform your sex life and relationships? It's time to join the Shameless Sex Revolution and find the passion, depth, and connection you've been waiting for.