Pegging: Your Guide to Shame-Free, Next-Level Pleasure

What is Pegging?

Simply put, pegging is a super-hot sex act where one person anally penetrates another using a strap-on dildo. While it used to be narrowly defined as a woman penetrating a man's anus, here at Pure Pleasure Shop, we celebrate that pleasure is for every single body. Pegging has totally evolved to be inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations.

Let's normalize and be direct about this amazing sexual concept. Ready to learn how to add this to your sexual experiences?

How to Make Your Own Rules and Do It Safely

Remember, all consensual sex is good sex! The best part about sex is that you get to make your own rules. Follow these steps for an experience that's all about no judgment, just love.

1. Communication is Key: Chatting Over a Glass of Wine (or another beverage)

Before you even touch a harness, you've got to chat. Have a friendly, warm, non-judgmental conversation with your partner.

• Talk through your desires, boundaries, and expectations.
• Explicitly confirm enthusiastic consent.
• Pick a safe word that either of you can use to stop anytime. Remember, you can change your mind anytime!

2. Gather Your Pleasure Tool Kit

To set yourself up for mind-blowing success, you need the right gear:

• Harness: Find one that fits snugly but comfortably. It needs to securely hold the dildo, so it stays put.
• Dildo: If this is your first time, a smaller, narrower, body-safe silicone dildo is a great start. Some are even specially curved to hit that sweet prostate spot! You can always work your way up to larger sizes; there’s no pressure.
• Lube: The anus is not self-lubricating, babe! Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant.
• Condoms (optional): A condom over the dildo helps reduce the risk of STIs and makes cleanup a hell of a lot easier.

3. Prepare for Shame-Free Pleasure

Let’s talk about a few prep steps to get you and your partner relaxed and ready:

• Take a shower or use a bidet beforehand.
• The receiver might want to empty their bowels to ease their mind about a potential mess. No judgment if an accident happens, though!
• Set the mood! Create a relaxing atmosphere.

4. Ease Into It: Exploration Time!

This isn't a race, folks. Go slow and focus on connecting.

• Warm up with foreplay: Get both partners aroused and relaxed. When the receiver is turned on, their muscles will loosen more easily.
• Start with fingers: Begin with manual or oral stimulation and then use one or two well-lubricated fingers to gently massage the anus. Explore gentle circular motions or a "come hither" motion if you're trying to stimulate the prostate.
• Introduce the toy slowly: Apply lube to the dildo and the anus. The giver can press the tip against the entrance while the receiver relaxes and slowly takes it in. Going at the receiver's pace is crucial.

5. Find Comfortable Positions

Finding the right position is all about finding what feels authentically good for you.

• Spooning: Both partners lie on their sides, facing the same direction. This is a lovely, gentle angle.
• Doggy-style: The receiving partner is on their hands and knees. This allows for a deeper angle of penetration, but since you don’t have eye contact, communication is key.
• Missionary with lifted hips: The receiver lies on their back and pulls their knees towards their chest. This provides eye contact and intimacy.

6. Prioritize Aftercare: No Judgment, Just Love

Well, that brings me to the end! After a hot session like that, it's time to clean up the toys and your bodies.

Aftercare is the cherry on top of the whole experience. Make sure to cuddle and check in with your partner. It helps reinforce trust and intimacy, especially when you've explored something new or intense.

Ready to take your sexual pleasure to the next level? Visit our online shop to find the perfect gear to make your own rules and dive into this hot, shame-free experience!