VALENTINE’S, YOUR WAY

Valentine’s Day gets loud about what you should want. We’re more interested in what actually feels good to you. Whether that’s lingerie, toys, connection, curiosity, or all of the above, this is your permission slip to do it your way.

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No pressure. Just pleasure.

This isn’t about performance, expectations, or getting it “right.” It’s about choosing tools, textures, and experiences that support your body, your relationships, and your curiosity, without shame or urgency. All consensual sex is good sex. That includes yours.

A few things we’re loving right now

These are some of our go-to favorites for Valentine’s, whether you’re shopping for yourself, with a partner, or for someone you care about. Thoughtfully chosen, body-safe, and genuinely enjoyable, no gimmicks, no pressure. Browse all our Valentine's favorites.

Shop it your way

Give the Gift of Pure Pleasure

Not sure what to choose? Let them decide with a Pure Pleasure Gift Card. Whether they’re exploring something new or stocking up on favorites, this digital gift makes it easy to say “treat yourself” — no guesswork required.

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Let’s talk about it first

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  • Get Out of Your Head

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  • Pucker Up

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Learn With Shameless Sex, Then do Valentine's Your Way

Amy and April have helped millions of people explore pleasure with confidence, curiosity, and zero shame.

If something you’ve heard on the podcast sparked a “huh… maybe” moment, this is a great place to start. These reads are designed to help you feel more present, more connected, and more at ease with what you want, whether you’re exploring solo, with a partner, or just learning.

Start with curiosity, not pressure

Stay Curious. Stay Connected.

We share education, product guidance, and pleasure tips rooted in curiosity, consent, and real bodies.